Finding inner peace in a modern world is a challenge, and in the holiday season it can be even more difficult. Everything feels like an obstacle in the way to experiencing peace of mind. But there are ways to find and maintain inner peace. Finding inner peace is a choice, and our habits can help determine how much peace you experience in your daily life.
How to experience inner peace, and enjoy life on a deeper, more satisfying level:
Focus your attention on things you can control. It's pointless worrying about stuff you can’t control? All that does, is sour your mood and make you less capable. Ask yourself, “Is this something I can control? Will worrying help at all?”
Spend time in nature. There is growing scientific evidence that show that spending time in nature is beneficial to our health. So, take a long walk in the park, or spend a weekend camping. It'll dramatically affect the way you feel.
Be true to yourself. Few things gnaw away at your soul like living a non-authentic life. Live a life that’s congruent with your values. It’s easy to allow society dictate your choices. You don’t have to spend your life in a career you hate, but that impresses others. You don’t have to chase after a fancy house, if that's not what you really want. Make your own decisions about what’s important to you.
Eat nutritiously. This can be a big challenge during the holiday season, so instead of depriving yourself, try to make healthy food choices at least most of the time. Think of food as a source of nourishment and make choices that support your health as often as you can. Drink plenty of water and limit your alcohol intake.
Do something nice for someone. This is a great way to take your focus off yourself. You'll become aware that others are also struggling. When you are kind, you get kindness in return. You’ll also feel a sense of pride, well-being, and satisfaction.
Be assertive. Be open and honest about your needs and desires. Not only are you more likely to get what you want, but you’ll also feel more in control of your life. Being passive results in having less control and reduced inner peace. Be bold, not aggressive.
It is vital you take care of yourself, both mentally and physically. Eat properly, exercise, get enough sleep and be true to yourself. Be assertive and take control of your life. All the accomplishments in the world can’t replace inner peace. Avoid chasing things society deems important but you don't. Decide for yourself, and live the life you were meant to live.